Conscious Relationship Design Workshops

Build Culture & Community. Navigate Conflict with Confidence. Upscale your Communication.
Improve your Relationships.

For Leaders, Businesses, Communities, Couples, Families, Friends, & Colleagues

If you, like us, understand that your relationships are really your greatest investment, safety network, and resource, then you know that prioritizing them is worth your time and energy.

Join Sarah Wildeman, Leadership & Relationship Dynamics Coach, Community Builder, and Founder of Our Common, in one or more of the following dynamic workshops designed to help all your relationships thrive.

Pre-Recorded Workshops:

Available for you to enjoy any time.

$40.00

We use relationship audits when we want to make adjustments to the dynamic in an existing relationship, whether that be an intimate partner relationship, a business relationship, or a friendship. Relationship audits help us clarify the purpose, roles, expectations and rules of engagement of a given relationship. 

In this 90-minute workshop we’ll explore how to conduct a relationship audit so you can bring tangible tools to a specific relationship or group that you have in mind. You’ll walk away with a practical framework for addressing changes that need to be made in a relationship, along with a specific process to initiate and facilitate the important conversations that need to happen. 

If you haven’t already, be sure to snag the replay of our Free Relationships by Design Workshop that lays the foundation for the rest of the series!

Upcoming Live Workshops:

Relationship Ecosystem Mapping Workshop
May
27

Relationship Ecosystem Mapping Workshop

Your life is made up of a whole web of relationships. It is a beautiful and complex ecosystem with many parts, and each relationship plays a unique role in your flourishing.

This 90-minute workshop builds on the concepts of ‘Relationship by Design’ to help you see the broader network that you are a part of. We’ll explore the many important relationships in your life and how they all fit together, to help you see where your attention and intention is most needed. This workshop is especially great for those who find themselves craving more elements of community in their everyday and will set you up to identify where to invest your energy relationally.

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Re-villaging Blueprint: Craft a Vision for your Ideal Community
Jun
25

Re-villaging Blueprint: Craft a Vision for your Ideal Community

What makes for ‘healthy’ community? What makes a community a ‘village’? When you find yourself craving more elements of community in your life - what is it that you’re really even wanting? Having a clear vision for what you are wanting to cultivate in your life and the world around you, is the first step in making it a reality.

In this 90- minute workshop we’ll expand your understanding of ‘the village’ in your life and make space and time to deepen your own community vision. Through guided visualization, journaling prompts and rich personal exploration you will come away with more clarity about what you want for yourself and the people around you - now, in the future, and everywhere in between. Walk away with some tangible steps towards bringing your vision to life!

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Intentional Workplaces: Craft a Vision for Where You Work
Jun
25

Intentional Workplaces: Craft a Vision for Where You Work

We all know that the people and culture in a workplace can make or break your work experience. You may have a list of company values - but how does it really translate into the day-to-day? Is your workplace culture truly felt by the people who are part of it?

In this 90-minute workshop we’ll create space and time to craft an aligned vision - using your creativity and imagination we’ll connect to the tangibles of what’s really needed to make that vision a reality. You’ll walk away with a real sense of the culture you want to craft and how to start taking steps towards it.

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Neighbourhood as Village: Building Everyday Community
Jul
8

Neighbourhood as Village: Building Everyday Community

In this workshop, we’ll explore simple, practical ways to build community in your immediate surrounding - your street, your building, your neighbourhood. This is about the quiet, powerful work of becoming someone who belongs to a place, and helps others belong too. It’s for those of us who look around and wonder: How do I build relationships with the people already here?

You’ll leave with tools, ideas, and encouragement for building a kind of local village - the kind where asking for a cup of sugar or offering childcare doesn’t feel strange, but natural. We’ll share case studies and real examples. There will be space for your questions and your particular context. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to begin.

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A 5-Step Framework for Starting Your Community Initiative
Jul
24

A 5-Step Framework for Starting Your Community Initiative

There’s a moment when a whisper becomes a calling—when you feel the urge to gather, to create, to bring people together. Maybe it’s a land-based vision, a co-led women’s circle, a community potluck, or a mutual aid group. This 2-hour session is for anyone standing at the edge of that beginning.

We’ll explore a 5-step process that supports your vision moving into form: from clarifying what’s true and resonant, to crafting your invitation, gathering shared buy-in, co-creating culture and agreements, and iterating through experience.

Expect tangible tools, a clear process, and time to apply this framework to your own real-life seeds of ideas. Whether you're a seasoned community holder or just starting to dream, this is a place to begin with others.

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Tending to Relational Wounds: A Workshop on Belonging & Worth
Aug
21

Tending to Relational Wounds: A Workshop on Belonging & Worth

The work of community starts within. For many of us, the desire to connect is tender. We want to deepen relationships—with friends, family, at work, or in our wider networks—but fear, old stories, and questions of worthiness show up at the door.

This 2-hour workshop is an invitation to pause and tend to the inner terrain that shapes how we show up with others. Through guided exercises, reflection, and embodied practices, we’ll explore the roots of belonging, self-worth, and the stories that shape our relational patterns.

Come as you are. You’ll leave with practical tools to strengthen your own secure inner base, and more courage to meet others with openness and clarity.

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Deepening Community with Intention
Sep
22

Deepening Community with Intention

Together, we’ll explore how work, play, and ritual can be meaningful tools for weaving connection and fostering a sense of belonging. Think: collaborative workdays that feel like celebration, shared rituals that root you in intention, and playful structures that unlock collective creativity.

Bring your curiosity, your current questions, and a willingness to reimagine how community can feel.

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Relationships as Ecosystems: Balancing Needs Within the Whole
Oct
28

Relationships as Ecosystems: Balancing Needs Within the Whole

Relationships—whether with friends, partners, children, or communities—are complex, living systems. Needs don’t always align. This workshop is for anyone navigating the dance of caring for yourself and the whole.

Together, we’ll explore what it means to live in relational ecosystems and practice discernment. We’ll touch into questions like: When do I lean in, and when do I step back? How do I hold my own need alongside yours? How can my body help me make wise, generous choices?

Through embodied practice, frameworks, and honest conversation, we’ll move toward a more grounded way of being in relationship—one rooted in reciprocity, generosity, and community-minded discernment.

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How to do a Relationship Audit
Apr
29

How to do a Relationship Audit

We use relationship audits when we want to make adjustments to the dynamic in an existing relationship, whether that be an intimate partner relationship, a business relationship, or a friendship. Relationship audits help us clarify the purpose, roles, expectations and rules of engagement of a given relationship. 

In this 90-minute workshop we’ll explore how to conduct a relationship audit so you can bring tangible tools to a specific relationship or group that you have in mind. You’ll walk away with a practical framework for addressing changes that need to be made in a relationship, along with a specific process to initiate and facilitate the important conversations that need to happen. 

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